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Monday, October 8, 2012

You Are Loved; Growing in Relationship with God



I have referenced several times that being saved, or being a Christian, is an inside relationship with God.  That is very hard for someone to understand who doesn’t know God.  It is extremely hard to put it into words.  There is a “knowing” on the inside of a Christian that the world cannot comprehend.  That is because it transcends knowledge.  A person looking into religion from the outside cannot understand the fulfillment, or joy, a believer in Christ has so it would seem then that religious people are weird or stupid or ignorant.  However one cannot “judge” the God of the Universe until a relationship is developed with Him.  Then, I suppose, if you don’t like him, you have every right to say so. But there are many who have entered into this awesome relationship with the Creator who possess no ability to articulate it.  So please forgive my frail attempt to explain to an ailing world that Christianity is about relationship with the maker of the heavens and the earth.

Some days it seems to me that humanity has forgotten the verb love. More importantly I think we have forgotten we are loved.  It hardly matters if we are aware of the one who loves us because whether we know it or not we are loved.  Simply, if we know we are loved, we should live with that confidence; however if we don’t know we are loved, we will live in a self imposed deficiency.  Not everyone has lived surrounded by people who outwardly love us, but there has always been someone who has loved us and waits for us to recognize him. 

I would speculate that humanity is in need of this simple verb, love, and the majority of our woundedness is due to not knowing we are loved and not teaching others that they are loved as well.  There are many times that we get weary in this life, but what energizes us to go on is the reality that we are loved. We then, who live as we are loved, are then commissioned to bring fruit forth from love. If we each truly loved each other, and taught this very deep verb, the wounds would heal and we’d be set free from bondage.

John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.KJV

It’s hardly imaginable that someone would die for us.  Just prior to Jesus mentioning this, he gave his disciples a commandment to love one another. 

John 15:12-17 This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you.13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.14 Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.15 Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.16 Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you, and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain: that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you.17 These things I command you, that ye love one another.KJV

One of the first things we see Jesus pointing out is to love each other; the second is, his great love for us in laying down His life for His friends. Then he says something we might not understand, we are his friends if we do what he commands, and he doesn’t call us servants anymore but friends. Friends know each other more intimately than a relationship with an employer/employee.  We have some friends in our lives that are closer than others, Jesus is telling them he chose them as friends, and has told them about the things the Father told him. He tells us he chose us and commissioned us to bring forth fruit that would last. And when we are cultivating fruit as Jesus appointed, we can ask the Father for what we need regarding our fruit.  Lastly he reiterates that we are to love each other. 

Love brings good things in our lives, yet there are some that have no human to love them. However the greatest lover is Jesus because he loved us even when we didn’t love Him.  He loved us before we were born.  If we can grasp a revelation of that, that Jesus knew us and loved us before we were born, and if we can hide that in our hearts as a seed, it will grow and flourish inside of us.  How can Jesus love us so completely, before our first breath, and then love us when we were covered in refuse in our miserable state of apathy? Maybe some have never experienced living in hell on earth, but many have and many are still living in hell on earth.  I once heard someone make a comment regarding people who were exuberant and joyful in worship, wondering how some have such a deep experience worshiping God.  The answer is simple, when you’ve lived in hell, anything that is not hell is awesome.  What’s more, knowing how much you are loved by the creator of the universe makes one immensely cheerful. 

Rom 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.KJV

The Father demonstrated His love for us in allowing Christ to die for us before we proved ourselves, or cleaned up our act.  Withholding love from someone until they get their life right is a human distortion of true love.  We love whether someone lives correctly or not, that is the love that cultivates in one’s heart.  The Father loved us before we were cleaned up and sent Jesus before there was any guarantee of our responding to His love.  What a risk to take.  Humans may very well have never turned their lives toward the Lord, and may even still choose to live in depravity rather than recognize that God loves us. But that was not a concern in Jesus laying down His life.  Even if this knowledge of true love had died with the apostles, it would have been worth the price paid.  But guess what, love didn’t die with the apostles, it is developed in us.  Now here is the rub, just because we go through hard times does not mean we are not loved. 

Rom 5:3-5 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience;4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope:5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.KJV

We can praise God through the storm, so to speak, because there is a purpose for tribulations. This is not to say that God is causing them, as we know that we have an enemy who stole some authority from Adam, who is the prince of the power of the air, the god of this world.  This is why we have tribulations in the first place.  Anyone who wishes to change their citizenship will be persecuted by the reigning evil rulership that governs our earth for this time. However we have hope that the kingdom of evil will be exterminated. As we have studied before, the Holy Spirit was given to us and through the Holy Spirit we can spread the love of God everywhere. We have to keep in mind we are eternal beings and this world is not home or our final stop, it is only an inconvenient waypoint in our eternal lives.

Rom 8:28-39 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.29 For whom he did foreknow, he also did predestinate to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brethren.30 Moreover whom he did predestinate, them he also called: and whom he called, them he also justified: and whom he justified, them he also glorified.31 What shall we then say to these things? If God be for us, who can be against us?32 He that spared not his own Son, but delivered him up for us all, how shall he not with him also freely give us all things?33 Who shall lay any thing to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifieth.34 Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword?36 As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter.37 Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.38 For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come,39 Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.KJV

If we can build ourselves up with these words we will do well in life.  Here is my paraphrase of Paul’s words:
He called us for a purpose; he foreknew us, predestinated us, conformed us to Jesus’ image, and made Jesus our big brother.  Being predestinated and called, we are justified and glorified.  Therefore with the God of the universe backing us, the puny god of this world will lose every time. No one can accuse you with any truth behind it, because you are a citizen of God’s household.  So surely we have everything we need, he’s not withholding any tools from us.  We can’t be separated from the Father or the Son’s love for us, and no circumstance we face on this earth can change our position of being loved ones.  Therefore we really are mighty conquers because of His love for us. No earthly or spiritual beings, or events, can ever do anything to extract us from God’s love for us.

1 Cor 2:9-10 But as it is written, Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard, neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared for them that love him.10 But God hath revealed them unto us by his Spirit: for the Spirit searcheth all things, yea, the deep things of God.KJV

God has prepared some very special things for those that love Him.  Human love directed to an omnipotent, omniscient Creator seems so very feeble.  Sometimes our idea of love comes from people.  Parents who may or may not have loved us, and we then distort our thinking to attribute these human actions to love.  But love, true love, is revealed by the Holy Spirit in our hearts.  Then, as this is cultivated, it continues to grow within us and the roots go deeper and deeper; just like a tree that grows above ground, its roots grow below the surface.  Then the Holy Spirit reveals the deep secrets of God to us. 

1 John 4:19 We love him, because he first loved us.KJV
1 Cor 8:3 But if any man love God, the same is known of him.KJV

First God loves us, then as we start to know Him and develop our love for Him we are assured that God knows us.  This answers the question of who the Lord knows and can enter the Kingdom of Heaven.

Matt 7:21-23 Not every one that saith unto me, Lord, Lord, shall enter into the kingdom of heaven; but he that doeth the will of my Father which is in heaven.22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.KJV

It doesn’t matter what works we have done in our lives they do not give us entrance to the Kingdom of Heaven.  Therefore works do not guarantee we get into heaven, instead works lead to rewards after we enter heaven.  The way to enter into heaven is to love God.  As we all know it’s not hard to love someone who loves us.  That is what draws us to Him, his love for us. Knowing he chose us before he formed the foundations of the world makes us very special. 

Eph 1:4-7 According as he hath chosen us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and without blame before him in love:5 Having predestinated us unto the adoption of children by Jesus Christ to himself, according to the good pleasure of his will,6 To the praise of the glory of his grace, wherein he hath made us accepted in the beloved.7 In whom we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, according to the riches of his grace; KJV

It pleasured God to adopt us, and he made us holy and blameless when we are before Him.  He made us acceptable as well.  How many times have we not been accepted or rejected in the world? Yet he made us to be good enough among everyone else.  Because of His grace as our adopted Father, he redeemed us and forgave us our sins. What an awesome God, he does not have to forgive us for anything, but he does.  In the end times He will bring everyone together who loves Christ.

Eph 1:9-129 Having made known unto us the mystery of his will, according to his good pleasure which he hath purposed in himself:10 That in the dispensation of the fulness of times he might gather together in one all things in Christ, both which are in heaven, and which are on earth; even in him:11 In whom also we have obtained an inheritance, being predestinated according to the purpose of him who worketh all things after the counsel of his own will:12 That we should be to the praise of his glory, who first trusted in Christ.KJV

Not only does he bring those in heaven and earth together, he gives us an inheritance.  He gives us presents?  How could anyone reject that? An inheritance is given to the heirs of the giver. 

Eph 2:4-7 But God, who is rich in mercy, for his great love wherewith he loved us,5 Even when we were dead in sins, hath quickened us together with Christ, (by grace ye are saved;)6 And hath raised us up together, and made us sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus:7 That in the ages to come he might shew the exceeding riches of his grace in his kindness toward us through Christ Jesus.KJV

God made us alive in Christ and he shows us kindness.  We didn’t deserve any grace or kindness, but by loving us first God drew us to Him; and when he did we responded to Him. Love draws people, whether it’s God loving us, or us loving other people.  This is a great key in bringing people into relationship with God.  If we love others they will be drawn to us and then we can show them God.  This is important, we cannot necessarily tell people to have a relationship with God, they need to see that we have a relationship with God. 

Eph 3:16-19 That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man;17 That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love,18 May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height;19 And to know the love of Christ, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with all the fulness of God.KJV

God strengthens us with miracle working power by the Holy Spirit inside of us.  This is why Christians have changes on the inside of them.  Christ dwells in our hearts; and it is by faith, our simple assurance that he will do what he says, that he dwells in us.  Then we are rooted and grounded in Him.  We are not born with roots, we have to believe on Him first, and then we have a seed.  The cultivation of love in us grows the seed and with it comes roots that stabilize us and keep us balanced.  After we are rooted and grounded, we can start to comprehend all four dimensions of the love of Christ, width, length, depth, and height. Christ’s love goes beyond the knowledge that he died for us, it dwells in us.  That is when we are filled with the fullness of God. I like the Message just as another way to state this.

Eph 3:14-19 My response is to get down on my knees before the Father, 15 this magnificent Father who parcels out all heaven and earth. 16 I ask him to strengthen you by his Spirit — not a brute strength but a glorious inner strength —   17 that Christ will live in you as you open the door and invite him in. And I ask him that with both feet planted firmly on love, 18 you'll be able to take in with all Christians the extravagant dimensions of Christ's love. Reach out and experience the breadth! Test its length! Plumb the depths! Rise to the heights! 19 Live full lives, full in the fullness of God. (from THE MESSAGE: The Bible in Contemporary Language © 2002 by Eugene H. Peterson. All rights reserved.)

Love is the action that starts a relationship, the Father’s love for us, and Christ’s love for us.  If we could communicate that love to an ailing world we could start to see people develop their own personal relationships with God. 

1 John 3:1-2 Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not.2 Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is.KJV

Love causes separation from the world.  But we can have boldness on judgment day because we are like him on this earth when we walk in love perfected.

1 John 4:15-17 Whosoever shall confess that Jesus is the Son of God, God dwelleth in him, and he in God.16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him.17 Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world.KJV

Twice the phrase “as he is” applies to us. First, when he appears we will be like him because we will see him as he is, as he really is.  We will be just like that, whatever body type or composition he has, we will be as he is.  Then, we can have boldness because as he is now, today, so are we in this world.  Because he dwells in us one day, we will be undressed of the corruptible, and dressed with the incorruptible; and whatever is in him, as we live on earth we are like that now.  That gives us something to ponder doesn’t it? Being connected with God in love gives us more than just a passing feeling, or a momentary warm heart, it gives us more than feelings for eternity. Yet with Christ in us, we are now as He is.  That is powerful, if we can get a true revelation of that.  You are like Him now! This is our first steps in developing our personal relationship with God Almighty, Creator of Heaven and Earth.